WE ARE SO PROUD OF YOU!
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Congrats!
WE ARE SO PROUD OF YOU!
Monday, June 29, 2009
Saturday, June 27, 2009
I'm Back...Kind Of :)
My flowers and plants are thriving! I'm thrilled. They are so beautiful on the deck and the colors are so bright and inviting. I decided to buy these big planters and they have worked out so well!
Friday, June 26, 2009
20 Things I Love
I love to hear my kids' say Mama (or Mony :)).
I love the spontaneous hugs that never cease to amaze me.
I love the way my boys' make me feel like the most important person in the world.
I love how they engage me in their games, make believe, songs, and books.
I love the wonderful smiles they throw my way.
I love the delighted giggles that escape.
I love their beautiful, expressive, brown eyes.
I love the way they wholeheartedly trust.
I love surprising them.
I love to teach them.
I love to see them learn.
I love to watch them peacefully sleep.
I love to see their imaginations at work.
I love to hear them pray.
I love their singing.
I love the way they live life to the fullest.
I love their boundless energy.
I love the sloppy, open-mouth kisses.
I love my boys.
I love being a Mom.
Thursday, June 25, 2009
On Work
A friend of mine has been a huge encouragement to me in challenging me to live a balanced life fulfilling all that God desires of me. I know that I don’t always get it right but I feel blessed to have the opportunity and flexibility (hygiene is great for this!) to work some (about 30 hours/month) and still enjoy being mostly a SAHM. It seems like the best of both worlds – sometimes I wish for more of one or the other but overall it works.
In truth, I appreciate the fresh perspective on my awesome sons. I miss them and it seems that all the challenges of the week melt away when I see them after only a few hours at work. They are sweet and adorable and we are all so happy to see each other!
I’m so thankful for my loving husband who supports and encourages me in the “outside” work that is a part of my life and our lives. I'm also grateful for his commitment and desire for me to mostly be at home - I know not everyone is able to do that! I’m thankful for the childcare my family provides which gives me the peace of mind to enjoy my work and to meet the needs of my patients. And I’m thankful for the employment that helped make it possible for our two sons to become a part of our family and that continues to help provide if/where needed.
When I think about the different roles God has called me to, I am reminded that He has called me to do them all for His glory! I pray that I will continually be strengthened and challenged in each responsibility. We truly serve an amazing God who has granted each of us different gifts & talents as well as unique roles & families. But He universally calls us to glorify and enjoy Him forever within every aspect of our lives. May that truly be the desire of our hearts.
Colossians 3:23-24 (ESV)
**Originally Published October 26, 2007**
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Interrupted Break
Open wide - Calvin is a ham on camera and off. He often says, "I'm funny?" or "You're funny." To him, being funny is quite the complement. :) He says it all with a twinkle in his eyes. We feel confident that his sense of humor has been a real asset with his life before our family and with his surgeries.
Learning to use a sippy cup. He feels pretty big and important and actually is doing quite well! He is still a poser but only when he wants to be. :) He has just started saying a few things that sound like they might be words - the vote is still out.
Teething Ty - he keeps sucking on his upper lip which is so cute. He has been working on three for a few weeks now and one finally popped through. He doesn't sleep as well when teething, so there have been many nights averaging a bit less sleep. :)
Simple Life: A Continuing Journey
I try not to be too sentimental but I'm finding that exceptionally challenging now that we have two adorable sons. It's just so hard not to keep everything they have ever worn and played with. :) But, I'm also committed to not saving so many things that the boys will roll their eyes and say, "Mom, we don't want that..." I think it will be more meaningful to them to have a few special things and many organized pictures and written memories. (Having said that, I do save clothes (and toys) to use if God chooses to grow our family but I know myself well enough to know that I will want any future son or daughter to have some new clothes, too. I always feel bad for children who only ever wear hand-me-downs. :))
It seems that the example we have in Christ is not a man burdened with lots of "stuff". I don't think having things is bad but I think we need to be careful stewards of what God has blessed us with. And I think it can become sinful if we allow "things" to take over our life. For me, that means going through and donating items fairly regularly. I'm challenged that it is wasteful and selfish to keep things that we aren't using (and likely won't use again). (Side note: The VA is a wonderful place to donate and they will pick up your donations - I make myself say yes every time they call to find out if we have anything to donate and then end up scurrying around the night before pick-up...)
So, simplicity in the form of serious organization is my goal. It is a constant process and I pray God will give wisdom and continue to challenge me in this life process. It's just that - a way of life and I know I fail more often then succeed! Let me emphasize again, having stuff is not wrong, it's my own attitude and actions regarding it that is the problem.
Now, here's my true confession - I love Christmas decorations and dishes. Both take up a lot of storage space... I'm working on it... Anyone need some Christmas lights? (Yeah, I'm not ready to offer the dishes, yet! :)
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Origami
This year, I decided that my "fun goal" would be origami. I bought a page-a-day calendar (50% off) of origami - paper and instructions. I have made it through day 4 fairly successfully though not without difficulty. I am keeping each of my projects to give my family. So far, I've folded a bird, dog head, penguin, and sled.
I will prove them wrong. I will learn to fold paper. I will conquer my origami fears. After all, I have this whole year to master this art form - okay, maybe not master. :)
Monday, June 22, 2009
Conversations with Calvin
Recently, C had been very disrespectful and disobedient and needed disciplined so I took him to the nearest private area to deal with it. After he received his punishment, he was crying with real sorrow.
C: (sob) You still love me?
Me: Oh yes, I always love you, that's why I cannot allow you to disobey and be disrespectful. It does not honor God.
C: (huge sob) God still love me?
Me: (trying not to burst into tears at his tender heart) Yes, He does and He desires you to do the right things.
God has been working in his heart in amazing ways in the last couple of weeks. He is asking so many good questions about God and Heaven. Today he told me he wanted to hug God and so he wrapped his arms around an invisible something and held on tight.
C was quite fearful of the storm the other night and our conversation went like this:
Me: (with my arms wrapped around him) Who made the rain?
C: (with confidence) God did.
Me: That's right and He is watering the earth. Who made the wind?
C: God did.
Me: Right. And who made the thunder.
C: Bad men.
Me: :) - No, God made the thunder, too.
C: Oh.
Me: Who made the lightening?
C: Bad men.
Me: No, who made it?
C: (with a grin) God did.
Also on rain:
C: God has a big, big cup and He fills it with water. He dumps it and we have a rain.
Me: Who were the friends you made at camp?
C: (arms outstretched) Too many friends!
Me: What were their names?
C: (with fingers outstretched) Alot, alot of names.
Love the 80s!
I have such great memories of my childhood and some of them are influenced by the great decade many of us grew up in – the 80’s! Have any of you seen the show “I Love the 80’s”? I’ve only seen it once or twice but it definitely gives you that nostalgic feeling! Anyway, I just wanted to share a few things I loved (& some that I didn’t) things from the rad 80’s.
1. Jelly shoes – these had to be number 1 because truly they were the best! I had several pairs – my favorite were turquoise with a little heel. As most of you girls will remember, they always got rocks stuck in the bottom. :)
2. Jelly bracelets – goes with number 1. I don’t think there was any limit to how many you could wear at one time!
3. Charm jewelry – not the classic silver kind but the plastic ones that never made it out of the 80’s. You could buy the charms in vending machines and dime stores and probably just about anywhere. When I lost my first tooth – I picked a saliboat charm for the tooth fairy to give me.
4. Mullets – this was not something I liked but sadly, how my mom cut my hair. I’m trying to get over the trauma. :) I’m glad most of you didn’t know me then and hopefully the rest of you can’t remember. All surviving pictures should be destroyed.
5. Leg Warmers – mine were purple w/ pink hearts. How cool was I!
6. Pegged pants – we can still bring this back guys!
7. Neon colors – Wow! You didn’t need orange vests when you were riding bikes. I had several t-shirts and of course accessories!
8. T-shirt slides – so you didn’t have to tie your t-shirt to the side, you could thread it through the decorated slide. To go with #7, mine was neon yellow with neon pink, green & yellow ribbon curls that hung off it.
9. Double socks – do I even need to remind you! :)
10. Big bangs – I never had mine as high or as awesome as the other girls but that wasn’t because I didn’t try. Hairspray, curl up, hairspray, curl down, hairspray, feather (if you can get your comb through it), hairspray, hairspray, hairspray!
There are tons of other totally rad things: like New Kid’s on the Block, tv shows, other clothing & accessories, phrases… Perhaps you have some you’d like to add! I’ll close for now with happy thoughts of our beloved decade! Cowabunga dudes & dudettes!
Monday, June 15, 2009
This Guy...
Friday, June 12, 2009
Making Their Day
Not only did they get to see his car and talk to him which was super exciting but now they are pretty sure there are toys in the trunk of all police cars. :) It was so cute and they could not stop talking about it. Andrew came home and Calvin (our more chatty one) was spilling out the story faster than Andrew could understand. :)
Kudos to the sheriff. He was so kind and really made the boys' day. I think it's officers like him that really encourage kids to make good choices and to view the law in a positive way. All in all, a great ending to our day!
Thursday, June 11, 2009
Motivation...Please?!
I have a to-do list as long as my arm and don't really want to do any of it. I'm thinking that when the kids run out of clothes, I'll just send them to the unfolded baskets and have them sort through to find something to wear. They'll love that.
And seriously, if I have to hear crying over another fake injury, I'm going to cry! :) This is what I hear constantly, "He touched me", "Wahhhh", "Look, Mom, right here" (as I strain to see the microscopic wound). We are working on toughness this summer and I'm teaching them to SAY, "Ouch! That hurt!" and be done (unless it's a serious injury, of course and I'll be the judge of that, thank you very much! :)). Lest you think, I'm completely heartless, I will be happy to tell them how sorry I am that they are hurt and give them a hug or even kiss said fake owie, but I will not stand for 10 minutes of wailing over nothing. And don't even think that a band-aid will fix it - they hate band-aids - even the character ones. I know, weird kids. And I know, mean mom.
Seriously, is there any ice cream around here? I'm going to have 2 helpings with chocolate and then I will be armed and ready to kiss away more boo-boos, come up with a supper plan, and fold some clothes. Who am I kidding...I'm taking a nap first. :)
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
The Post that Wasn't
So instead of the intended post, I will give you a couple of pictures from the last day of school. Yeah, I meant to post them about a month ago. Sigh. And yes, I'm fully aware that I look a little strung out in the picture.
Too cool for school.
And no, we aren't fans of the stomach showing (we'll leave short boy shirts in the 80s, thanks)...I think it was just the pose but who knows. :) I'll be the first to admit that my kids occasionally make it out the door in clothing that doesn't quite fit, shoes on the wrong feet etc...it just screams good parenting. :)
Mommy might be tired.
But hey, these three make it worth it. I love them to pieces and am super blessed that God chose me to be their Mom!
Monday, June 08, 2009
Kazapalooza 2009 - Just Pictures for Now! - Updated
Headed to the pool for the very fun pool party! The resort was so gorgeous!
Definitely a water baby - he LOVED it!
Like his brothers...
Titus and Asa were born 1 week apart within 1 hour distance of each other and both were adopted into families with two older boys.
And here are the families of boys - six between us! Gretchen and Chris went from 0 to 3 kids in about 13 months. They are an awesome family and we loved hanging out with them!
These boys were all born and adopted from Uralsk, Kazakhstan. Our boys have been home the longest and are the oldest by a bit. They are all absolutely adorable! It was so fun comparing notes about the baby houses and in-country experience!
Our family on the last day.
Stopping for ice cream on the way home...what would a trip be without an ice cream stop. :)
It's just so amazing to be with people who love Kazakhstan, have had similar experiences, and have been so blessed through adoption. I loved feeling "normal" - you don't have to explain everything; we all know how it works etc. It was incredible to see all the families - some built entirely through adoption and some built through both biology and adoption.
Every single person would tell you that adoption is awesome - I think we are all pretty passionate about it! :) What beautiful families, beautiful hearts, and beautiful children.
Yesterday was an emotional day - in a happy and good way! I learned of two families receiving referrals and another family having two foster children placed with them. I saw all of them this weekend and rejoice with them! I love that more children are on their way to finding forever families. I could go on and on but I'll stop. We can't wait until next year and we hope to see many of you before then!
Sunday, June 07, 2009
Back Home Again
Saturday, June 06, 2009
Sweetness
Does anyone else hate teething biscuits? So messy and nasty but babies seem to love them. :) Poor guy is cutting about four teeth right now - the two on the upper left are winning so he may have a lopsided smile for a little while.
He is taking a lot of steps! I will never get tired of watching that developmental milestone - we first got to experience it with Calvin. Titus is incredibly proud of himself and constantly looking around to see who will cheer for him - we oblige. :)
Titus is also occasionally giving open mouthed kisses which completely melts my heart.
Friday, June 05, 2009
Thursday, June 04, 2009
Learning Something New
I think the model is pretty cute. :) While this was my first completed knitting project, I certainly hope it won't be the last! It was fun and I had such a sense of accomplishment. The older boys have requested hats for themselves - Calvin would like orange and green stripe and Patrick would like two colors of blue. We'll see.
Wednesday, June 03, 2009
Winners!
Well, today marks the end of the celebration! I had such a great time thinking up giveaways and reading all the comments. I put everyone's names in bowls and had the boys draw the winners for each giveaway. And with that, we have 7 winners!
#1 - Starbucks Card - Heather L.
#2 - Dessert Cookbook - Jennifer T.
#3 - Trader Joe's Bags - Jenna N.
#4 - Book Giftcard - Jenny S.
#5 - Outdoor Cookbook - Heather S.
#6 - Art Notecards - Stephanie E.
#7 - Necklace - Ann H.
Thank you all for entering! Evidently you had a greater increase of winning if your name was Heather or anything with Jen. :) It was random, I promise! Honestly, I always wish I could give something to everyone but alas, that just isn't possible - there were a lot of entries.
Congrats to all of you and I will be getting your prizes to you in the next week! Enjoy!
Tuesday, June 02, 2009
30: The 1st 24
So far, 30 hasn't been very good...I came down with severe stomach flu early this morning and have felt awful. I'm sure things will look up in the next 24 hours. :)
I did have a lovely day celebrating yesterday - my mom and all of my sisters (even the one from up north!) surprised me for lunch and Andrew took me out for a lovely dinner last night. Sadly, I'm missing out on my Mom's Night Out tonight - they let me pick the restaurant and I was so looking forward to it.
Here's to hoping tomorrow is better than today and that nobody else gets sick - we are scheduled to head out of town for the weekend and we definitely want to go and be well! I think I've used up all the energy I had...back to bed for me.
Monday, June 01, 2009
How do I love thee? Let me count the ways...
(by Alaina's lucky husband Andrew)
On this her thirtieth birthday, I thought she needed a guest post on her blog! Henceforth, with no more ado, I give you:
Thirty Wonderful Things About Alaina! (or, why I love her so much; in random order)
1. is the best and most faithful friend I ever could have asked for (and prettiest!)
2. enjoys her three sons, and is always envisioning fun things to do with them
3. bakes incredibly delicious desserts (and main courses, too)
4. is an interesting, engaging, entertaining writer – just look above and below!
5. likes to play fantasy football with me, and really does play (e.g., she doesn’t just sign up, but she learns the players, the strategies, and seriously talks about who to start each week!)
6. balances out my pack-rat tendencies and (to a greater or lesser extent, depending on my sentimentality) helps me get rid of no-longer-needed stuff :{
7. is an extremely loyal, caring, devoted friend
8. is also, like me, a competitive board-game enthusiast, although for some reason (probably three reasons, actually) we don’t play as much as we used to
9. has this mischievous side that keeps life interesting
10. loves spending time with me (as she would say, a happy coincidence!)
11. definitely knows how to throw a (Christmas/birthday/general) party, complete with decorations, food, drinks – and did I say delicious food?
12. enjoys looking at home plans with me, and envisioning and discussing our green dream house
13. has a heart for adoption, which has changed our lives, and will, I trust, change many others as well
14. likes dogs (maybe more than I do at this point, which is something of a role-reversal from a few years ago)
15. enjoys gardening, and puts the produce – and particularly her herbs – to excellent use
16. is very patient with my idiosyncrasies (I’ll not list them; she knows them well enough)
17. helps make sure I don’t walk out of the house looking like I time-traveled from the 80s
18. is something of a perfectionist, which, being one myself, is great (most of the time :)
19. likes to travel and explore new towns, states, and countries – and is a great traveling companion
20. is very financially responsible, which makes accounting, budgeting and saving easier
21. has a great mind, and puts it to good use in many ways, including in discussing cases and other work with me
22. loves people and is always eager to help, serve, and make their lives happier
23. thoroughly enjoys a good book, and is always fun to book-shop with
24. has remained remarkably mentally stable considering that she lives with four “boys,” three of whom are within three years age of each other
25. not only loves Christmas, but also makes it a wonderful time of year, from decorations to events to gifts!
26. is always up for a late night movie (even if she falls asleep in the middle :)
27. loves her family and spending time with them
28. bakes, cooks, and creates some of the most amazing things in the kitchen (did I list this already? If so, it bears repeating!)
29. has the prettiest name in the world (thanks, Dad and Mom J.!)
30. like me, is concerned with stewardship of the earth, and in thinking and acting “green”
31. is very concerned about the health and welfare of her family, and takes that very seriously (hello, more good food!)
32. is very understanding when I have to work late
33. and did I mention that she’s hot?!
Oh wait, I’m going on too long! But as we were always told with our birthday “spankings,” there’s always two or three to “love Daddy on,” etc., so I trust you’ll forgive me. Rest assured, she really is only turning thirty this year! This short list barely scratches the surface; I could list thirty more. But since she’s only turning thirty, that will have to wait! J
I love you, Alaina!
Countdown to 30: Giveaway 7
I've enjoyed looking back at birthdays past and in a way anticipating the birthdays that are to come. The past 30 years have brought some amazing things and I trust the next years will as well. The best thing ever is our journey to building our family. It's not just the best because I get to be the mom of three incredible boys but because it gave me an entirely new perspective on love, family, and the world. And while I was certain that we would someday adopt, I had no idea it would be by the time I was 30. It's been quite the journey. I feel so content and so blessed. Thank you for joining me on this Countdown to 30 - I've had a great time! Here's to another year of adventure, life changes, and living life to the fullest.
And now what you are waiting for - I'm so thrilled to offer this necklace for the final giveaway!
The necklace is the Double Stranded Cabochon Necklace and the description reads, "This necklace has two strands from which petit cabochons dangle. The two chains are of different weight; the top chain is about 1 mm in thickness and the bottom chain is about 2 mm. It also features a filigree box clasp. This necklace is 18" at its longest point."
In order to be entered into this awesome final giveaway and support another local artist, please visit her etsy shop and leave a comment with your favorite piece. I have a hard time choosing but I really like the Green and Red Cloisonne Lockets with Cloisonne Beads!
Here are the rules for one last time :):
1) 1 entry per person per giveaway - you do not have to live locally or even know me personally for any of the prizes (I will cover all shipping costs).
2) You can enter all drawings for the week - just leave a comment with the specified guidelines on each giveaway post.
3) Make sure I have a way to contact you if you are the winner (winners will be chosen randomly unless otherwise noted).
I will draw winners for all giveaways on Wednesday, June 3 and contact the winners via e-mail and list them here on the blog. And I'll try to get everything in the mail or delivered within the week. Thanks again for joining in my birthday celebration!
They will all close tomorrow evening!